Ok so, managed to get it running again and it sounds as good as it ever did.
1st issue around starter: Tightened connection on top of solenoid. The connection that goes to the positive terminal of the battery (mine is neg ground/earth) worked loose. Probably because the battery is not strapped down and moves about a bit. I have some straps I can put around it which I will do to ensure that is minimised. Looking at the old starter solenoid it was the same pole/terminal which had become loose so I am guessing that is something to watch out for if your battery can move about and a point of possible failure. The old solenoid terminal moves if you wobble it. This lucas one needed the bolt tightening to remedy the play.
Another issue of the cranking cutting out after engagement seems to be this Lucas solenoid has a sort of spade connector rather than bolt for the 3rd smaller connection and the the throttle linkage that passes by that area could make contact with that connection depending on which position the throttle lever was in. As a solution I bent down that spade connector to ensure it would not come close enough to contact it and placed some electrical tape around the metal connector and a little around the throttle linkage/bar where the solenoid is. I went around tightening all the connections from battery to starter. Cranking become more reliable and sounded better.
Still get the jamming/stiff starter lever maybe between 1in 5 to 1 in 10 attempts at pressing it down. This one was a pre-existing issue though and as Sandy mentioned you can push harder and it will eventually engage. Doesn't feel nice though as there is a fair bit of resistance and forcing it down so hard feels like i'm going to break something eventually. But from what I gather this last issue does not seem to be something to be too worried about, thankfully.
This starter issue seems to have been coincidental to the stalling issue which threw me off a bit on diagnosing the problem. The starting issue seems resolved for now with the above tweaks. It probably manifested now because it was the first work out the dexta got so maybe the first chance for connections to loosen.
So it cranks, therefore ruling out the worst case scenario of needing engine rebuild

, I had read somewhere on this forum that if it stalled and lost power and did not crank after this happened there could be something going on with the pistons and or seizing up. Basically because I haven't fully tested this Dexta in different uses and given it a good work out I am forever double guessing whether I have bought a lemon or not. Until I have proven it can do the few tasks I need it to do. Doesn't help that I am a complete novice to all this. So thank you all for your patience. All part of the learning process I guess and without this forum I think I would have gotten nowhere.
So onto the stalling issue. As suspected it was a fuel supply issue. Lots of air seemed to be in all the three bleeding bolts. (2 on the fuel filter, bottom and top one) and one on the Minimec injection pump. Most of the air was trapped around the injection pump and that one took a few attempts to fully bleed. about a litre of diesel came out before the frothing air bubbles subsided enough. While distracted with the starter lever and cranking issue I forgot to check for the puffs of white smoke that come out of the exhaust when cranking which tells you whether fuel is reaching the engine.
After remembering about that I bled the fuel lines until I saw that happen. cleaned off the fuel that had dripped all over the injector pump etc and it fired up quite heartily. I have seen others go as far as loosening the connections at the injectors themselves where the fuel line connects to the injector. I have not done this as there seems to be mixed opinions on this, possibly causing more problems and headaches. So i just followed what was in the manual, but some seem to think that they need bleeding all the way up to the injectors. Since i got the puffs of smoke without doing that I was happy to stop at bleeding the pump.
so how did the air get in? I think maybe the fuel tank was low and while driving across the flat but bumpy land air could have got in through the tank.
either that or I need to check the connection between the fuel line from the tank to the fuel pump. It seems that either it could be worn or I haven't tightened it properly when I was checking if the fuel tap was working. I will keep an eye on this. Added more diesel and if it happens again I will check that fuel supply line from tank to pump more thoroughly. But for now its working well. I don't think it was from when I changed the fuel filter as I have used it with pallet forks and test driving it around the woods next to my land. It was starting and working well as far as I could tell until it stalled after the hour of topping. The previous owner was using ether to start, so I am pretty happy about it starting so well with the heating element working now.
And @old_hywell, I agree I would have thought a 1m topper would have been no bother for the Dexta. Which is kind of why i risked using it without the working thermometer. thanks for the tips on overheating, I am hoping I never get to that stage of seeing it boiling over. It does make me wonder why the coolant was frothy on the top, I am hoping this is due to some contaminating residues from the vinegar rinse I gave it rather than anything gasket related. When I rinsed it after the vinegar I was just pouring 5litre tanks of well water into it rather than a hose as i I dont have a hose on hand where I am working on it and I don't want old coolant etc pouring into the soil. I also read that some people warm the engine up for a short while with vinegar in it to get it to do its job better, but I could not do that as It was when I was working on the water pump and it partly disassembled with the radiator removed so it was not in a state to attempt that. I plan on draining and giving it another flush soon when I have another stab at fixing the thermostat and thermometer, and last risk of frosts have passed, With the thermometer not working I am forever paranoid about overheating the engine so I need to get that sorted ASAP for peace of mind. The manual states to use plain well water in summer season, is that still advisable considering its so old and rusty? and do you adhere to the ratios suggested in the manual depending on expected temps in your climate and season? or are people just sticking in 50/50 mix of antifreeze and water? I have access to well water but will probably use distilled water after flushing with well water.
Anyway panic over for now

. Next jobs are going to be oil changes, fitting manifold tap for primer pump (i have read somewhere on the forum that without this tap fuel can continue seeping through here when in use, mine does not have one) and hopefully get this thermometer and thermostat working.
Eventually I expect to have to change the seals on hydraulic lift, overnight the arms drop with just a draft bar attached, maybe expected for something this age. Holds pretty well in everyday use so not a major issue right now and not too worried about it other than to make sure to check the hydraulic oil levels more often. I plan on doing a full oil change for hydraulics, transmission and engine very soon, just waiting on replacement drain plugs since last time i tried removing it looked like it had been rounded off and it would not budge. The plan here is to use pipe wrench with bottle jack to hold in place as a first attempt as I have seen described on the forum and have seen someone doing similar on a Massey Ferguson 35.
@Sandy thanks for that info so I presume 3rd or fourth should be fine for topping then if its ok for ploughing in considering there is even less contact being made with the ground. And good to know what to check for regarding worn brushes. I should maybe look into returning the old solenoid at some point if its original but will post a video of the play on the terminal before I do. I think the play could be due to the battery moving about and it tugging on the terminal connection when it does and so possibly increasing wear on it. A temporary solution is going to be battery straps
I will try get the picture of that missing sump plate/drain for the engine oil that we spoke about before. All I have on the bottom of mine is the drain plug. Looking at pictures and manuals others seem to have a round plate with 4 bolts which can be removed and sump filter/metal gauze. Cannot see one on mine. only a single oil drain bolt/plug.
had a go at adjusting the fan belt tension the other day to solve the screech on start up. If I remember correctly it seemed to get better for a while but after todays fixes it was back. So either I am not adjusting the belt to the right tension or I am not tightening the bolts down well enough and they are working loose a little, or both. The manual has no pictures on how much you measure the travel on the belt so I am just going off verbal descriptions I have seen on the forums. I will look for some videos online maybe for a Massey Ferguson as there seems to be more videos of those being worked on. I am always trying to be careful of not over tightening things, maybe I should get hold of a torque wrench to help with this. In lieu of that I tend to hold the spanner close to the head to avoid putting too much force on things.
And yes the temp probe is puzzling, need to get that sorted. I presume as long as the laser thermometer reading around thermostat housing near to the where the thermometer probe is bolted on should never read above 160 - 170 F if all is well. The reason I check around the injectors is because I worry that the somehow there could be a chance that the cooled water is not flowing through the engine block as it should and is mainly circulating through the radiator, water pump and back into the radiator, therefore not doing the job of cooling the engine block as it should. I think it's unlikely looking at how it's all plumbed but without knowing accurately what the water temps are it is hard to tell. Either way having to use the laser thermometer and checking it every 20-30 minutes is tedious and it needs sorting for peace of mind. Thats high on the to do list and will look at it ASAP.
I do like that feeling when you fix something that is not working, hearing the engine running well again is great after being stuck with a problem. Albeit with the great pointers on this forum
Thanks again all